I don’t really have much that I can say about this except that he obviously likes you. The wanting to punch someone out is coming from his frustration with other people trying to ‘take you away from him’ before he gets the chance to date you himself. He’s probably also frustrated because he’s under the same impression you are: that you don’t like him back. 

So just talk to the guy and put both of you out of your confused misery.

-Hawkeye

Since you broke up with him, he has every right to see other people. But you also have every right to be jealous because of it. People break up because something isn’t working. Sometimes they still have feelings for each other. It’s really not that uncommon.

And maybe he isn’t happy. Maybe the dates he’s going on are just to fill the gap you left behind when you broke up with him. People fake being happy all the time. He’s probably trying to move on, as people want to do. Getting out of a relationship is tough. It leaves holes where you don’t expect them. It’s easier to try to fill them with something, like dating, than nothing at all.

My real question is: if you still “have a lot of feelings for him” then why did you break up with him in the first place? You should probably think really hard about that and decide if you’re just jealous or if you made a big mistake.

You should probably talk to him.

-Hawkeye

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You guys don’t realize how happy this makes me.

I’m glad it makes you happy.

Well hey there, lovely people! 

The name’s Hawkeye, or Clint if that’s what you prefer. And this is the start of my new Advice column!

Yesterday I was talking to this girl Liz and she told me that I should have an advice column because I give good advice. So I decided “Hey, why not?” and now here we are. 

So ask me anything you want to know, and I’ll help you out!